So, January 1st is a couple days away and it's time to make your new year's resolutions. You know…those things you say will do every year that are usually broken by February, March if you're noble. Come on people, these are resolutions, not simple goals. I challenge you this year to put more thought into them and figure out how to take the concrete steps to accomplish your goals, whatever they may be.
Every December I take a deep look back at the past year and look for where I did wro
ng. I look at where I could have made better decisions and I am also thankful for where luck was good to me. There are a lot of things I would like to do in the 2009. Eat right, workout more, make more money, spend less, etc. But those are the same things I wanted last year. It's the SAME plan and it's been the SAME plan for years. It's time to develop a new plan focusing on the underlying habits that lead to the consistency and discipline that will allow you to complete your goals. Instead of being specific, let's take a look at focusing on a few interrelated parts of your life to improve in the 2009.
Relationships: "It's not what you know, it's who you know." Maintaining resolutions are a lot easier with a partner. But maintaining good relationships in general are an integral key to success. Good relationships open doors that were previously closed and offer support in your worse times. Bad relationships will suck out your energy and make you doubt the validity

of your aspirations. Going into 2009, eliminate the bad relationships, cut them out cold turkey.
The new year is a great time, to foster new relationships and strengthen the good ones you already have. Go places where you will have chances to talk to people and meet ne
w groups. Any conversation can turn into more knowledge and new opportunities. Who knows if the next person you meet will provide a great business opportunity?
But good relationships aren't found everywhere. If you spend your evenings scouring the bars and happy hours, looking for love in the club, you may not find the relationships you are looking fo
r. If you are looking for new business contacts, try going to trade events and joining professional societies. Whatever you're looking for you should look at going not just to different venues, but different types of places. Odds are that person you may need to talk to goes to places you don't go.
Time: "Time is money." This upcoming year you will have

8,760 hours in the year. That may seem like a lot but when you take away things like your 9 to 5 (8 hours), sleep (8 hours is recommended), eating, grooming, and travel you are looking more at 2,600 hours/year or an average of 8 hours/day with obviously less on weekdays and more on weekend.
That may seem like a lot of time but as we all know, it runs out really quick. This year treat your time like the precious commodity it is. Just like your job, bill your time for your personal production. If you have certain goals or resolutions, commit a certain amount of hours to that task like 8 hours a week to the gym, a maximum 8 hours to the television, or only five hours to drinking a week. When spending time doing something, ask yourself could you be doing something more productive or could you be doing two things at the same time.
When out with friends or business acquaintances, charge them for your time. Charge them for your time? Yes, figure out what you are getting out the encounter. If it's truly beneficial, then the time was well spent; if you aren't having any fun or not getting any useful networking, it's a waste of time that either needs to be repaid or you should try to avoid in the future. Again, time is precious and it is your time. Do not spend (and it is spending) your time doing things you do not want to do or will not benefit you. I know this may seem selfish, but if you waste your time doing other things you will not have the time you need to accomplish your goals. But using that time to create and mend relationships may be worth it.
Resources: "Only give what you can afford to lose." Anybody reading this blog, I'm sure has a limited amount of resources. While time is one of those, it is the only major one that is fixed. Unless you're Hiro Nakamura, you have to spend your time doing something. Might as well find out where it's going to go first. The rest including your income fluctuate and have to be spent more wisely.
Everybody needs money, or we would have to go back to the

barter system. Most of us have a job with some sort of fixed income eventhough some of us may have recently departed from our jobs due to this terrible economy. Although, we may not have much money, we do need to keep track of where that money is going. I highly recommend using Intuit's Quicken software. Track your paycheck from the bank and download your transactions from your bank is track exactly where your money is going. Setup a cash flow to let you know how much money you should have at certain times per month. Maybe it will help you reach that resolution to get your spending under control.
The real estate market has been a stable part of the economy for a very long time. It is now coming under fire and we may not have a true valuation of current real estate for another 2-3 years. But whatever real estate you are in, whether renting or owning, take good care of your residence. Your home is your base of operations. Keeping a neat home will improve your mood when you leave and when you come home. It will help improve your relationships and make you more time efficient.
Do you have a car? Do you need one? If you are an urbanite like myself, you may find yourself less reliant on a car for everyday use. I ride public transportation to work everyday and do a lot of my partying through mass transit. But I still have a car at home, paying a car note and auto insurance that are a huge burden on my financial resources. IF you can, cut the cord. Sell your car and throw away the insurance payment with it. For most people that can save you from somewhere between 300 and 600 dollars a month. Imagine being able to use that money on cab rides or maybe zipcar if it's available.
Working on the general areas above might should help you set yourself up to accomplish your other goals. Work on the simple things first, and the other things you want should fall in line.